We say we want to know THE TRUTH, but when it comes we label it The ENEMY. – S. Renee, There IS More Inside.

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  1. Hello i have a question to ask you S.Renee involving having true friends and i really need yours or someones advice about this question im about to ask you.(Here’s my story) I recently back in march of 2011 met a lady at a nightclub i usually hanged at for fun and enjoyment and she was the person that approached me and spoke to me and decided we should be friends. And we did exchange facebook info and gave each other our personal phone numbers but the problem is the only way she communicates with me sometimes since then is on Facebook and she never ever bothers to call me or even send me a text and i have seen her about 6 times since we met and they were mostly at Bars and night spots and she acts nice to me in front of me but im concerned about maby she is lying to my face about being friends. My question to you is that does my story seem to be like she maynot be wanting to be my friend and shes blowing me off as a person and keeping me at arms distance or maby theres another answer to my story?

    1. Hello Travis,

      Thanks for question. First, I can’t define for you what a true friend is for you because all of our needs are different. Hence, the purpose for private coaching sessions. What I need from a friend is different from what you may need. That’s a question you have to ask yourself, “What do I need from the people in my innercircle (those closet to me)?’ Second, Travis, I would encourage you to ask yourself, what are her actions saying about her and what is important to her? Are you included on her priority list? Are you among the top 5? 10? 20? Where do you fit? Where would you like to fit? What does your desire to get attention from someone who isn’t giving it saying about you? I can’t answer these questions for you, but a part of growing, evolving, and becoming more of who you really are and getting what you want is knowing where you are, where you want to go, and what you need to get there. May I suggest that you seriously ask yourself those questions. Should you decide to share, I would love to know what you come up with.

      Be the empowered person that you are,
      S. Renee

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      1. Hey S.Renee,

        I just read your response and yes alot what you said is right. like me asking my own self those questions. and you did point out these personal questions noone has ever told me the questions like you responded, what are her actions saying about her and what is important to her? Are you included on her priority list? Are you
        among the top 5? 10? 20? Where do you fit? Where would you like to fit? What does your desire to get attention from someone who isn’t giving it saying about you? and i just took the time and read those questions and just automadically thought to my own self the answers came up. and all point to no it really seems i wasn’t included into her daily life or being apart of being a friend to her. and i can only say is sometimes she speeks to me on a social network site like facebook but thats about it or when she sees me in person at the local night spot and like i said thats about all she communicates with me. i mean i know the main rule real friendship with people involves communication and thats the basic rule in life to having friends and doing activities of coarse. but yes i did just read and thought about what you responded to me and i give you a personal thank you for the advice. and it will at least help me in the future.

        but thank you for responding

        sincerly,
        Travis

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